Yes, Hanguang-jun. I always do my best, though sometimes it can't really be helped, like when Jingyi disappeared.

But it only feels right if nobody gets hurt, and I try to make sure they don't! Because how could something bring me joy when it grieves another? At least if I can help it...

Also, Senior Beitang helped with some advice, one evening when Jin Ling was upset and I went to comfort him. About communication and boundaries and such.